what s about using facebox in sending message, adding friend etc... and not like and dislike.
it will be cool to try this

i changed the code i u module:
<td align="right"><img src="'.uhome().'/files/icons/message.gif" /></td><td align="left"><a href="'.url('message/compose/u'.$owner['id']).'" rel="facebox">'.t('Message').'</a></td></tr>

and it works, but it loads all the page of message/compose, with the header , footer etc, what i need is to load just the post message form.
any help ?
thanks

Easiest way to do it probably is to copy the message form code and paste it into a new .php file. Then upload that to your site and use that link for the code you've provided above.

So then when you click, "facebox" will open and will load the page with just message form in it?

Not actually tested it but it's worth a try...